Love Yourself Fiercely: The Journey to Embracing Your Whole Self
- Mar 3
- 3 min read
by Lillian Jackson, Co-Founder of Brown Skin Brunchin’
As women, we often carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. We wear many hats—mother, sister, friend, leader—and sometimes, in the process, we forget to prioritize the most important relationship of all: the one we have with ourselves. For years, I poured my energy into lifting others, while quietly battling the silent critic in my own head. But one day, I realized that to truly empower others, I had to empower myself first. That moment changed my life.
As the co-founder of Brown Skin Brunchin’, a community built to celebrate the uniqueness of women of color, I’ve learned that loving yourself fiercely is not just an option—it’s a necessity. The truth is, when we embrace our individuality, practice self-compassion, and build our confidence, we radiate a power that cannot be ignored.
The Power of Self-Love
Self-love is more than bubble baths and spa days. It’s about honoring your worth, even when the world tries to convince you otherwise. For me, self-love began when I stopped apologizing for being myself. I realized that my quirks, my voice, my passions—they are what make me, me.
To cultivate self-love, I’ve developed three daily practices that I live by:
Positive Affirmations: I start every day by looking in the mirror and saying three things I love about myself. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but over time, it rewires the way you see yourself.
Setting Boundaries: Learning to say "no" was a game changer. Saying no to what doesn’t serve you is saying yes to your peace.
Celebrating Small Wins: From finishing a project to simply getting through a tough day, I celebrate myself. Acknowledging my efforts keeps me motivated.
Embracing Individuality
At Brown Skin Brunchin’, we celebrate women for who they are. Whether it’s through shared laughs at brunch or deep conversations about our journeys, we remind each other that our uniqueness is our superpower. Too often, society pressures us to fit into a mold. But what makes you different is what makes you extraordinary. Embracing individuality is about standing tall in your truth and owning your story.
Confidence is a Muscle
Building confidence doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a muscle you strengthen every time you take a step outside your comfort zone. I remember the nerves I felt hosting our first Brown Skin Brunchin’ event. What if no one showed up? What if I wasn’t enough? But I pushed through, and today, our community thrives with thousands of women who remind me that we are all capable of greatness.
Confidence starts with action. Say yes to opportunities that scare you, speak up for yourself, and know that you belong in every room you enter.
My Challenge to You: Love Yourself Fiercely
As we step into 2025, my challenge to every woman reading this is to commit to loving yourself fiercely. Be unapologetic about who you are. Surround yourself with people who lift you up. Celebrate your wins, big or small. And most importantly, remember that you are worthy—today, tomorrow, and always.
At Brown Skin Brunchin’, we’ve built a sisterhood rooted in connection, joy, and empowerment. If you’re ready to step into your power, I invite you to join our community and embrace the magic of shared experiences with women who see and celebrate you.
Let’s make 2025 the year we live boldly, love ourselves fiercely, and inspire others to do the same.
With love and sisterhood,
Lillian Jackson
Co-Founder, Brown Skin Brunchin’
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