Redefining Success: The Year "Winning" Almost Broke Me
- Apr 7
- 2 min read
By Chelsea Fazio
When did you redefine success?
I redefined success when I reached what I thought was success, and was completely disappointed. I had just secured my biggest client yet, only to end up being ghosted, my creative confidence crushed, and emotionally numb. Although that year on paper was my best year, it was the one that broke me.
After that, I literally could not create. I would stare at blank pages with no inspiration. I ended up scaling back on my work to recover and rediscover my creative passion through the Artist Way. That year was one of my lowest years on paper but was the best in every possible way. It was the moment that I got clear on what mattered most to me. I learned to trust my intuition and lean into alignment. I no longer said yes to people who didn’t align or missions I didn’t fully understand.
Now, years later, my success looks completely different. I no longer focus on numbers, but on the impact my clients and I are leaving.
What win meant the most personally?
There are two wins that mean the most to me.
The first is the moment a client sees their brand come to life and something clicks. I’ve had clients tell me, “I finally feel proud to send people to my website” or “For the first time, my brand actually feels like me.” That shift when they step into their confidence is what fuels me. I get to help them walk on stage a little taller, pitch with conviction, and show up fully as themselves. As a creative who spent years settling for work that didn’t represent me, I know how powerful it is when your business finally aligns with what you envision inside.
The second win runs even deeper. I get to work with women-owned businesses that break down barriers to create accessibility for others, whether that’s financial education, entrepreneurship, or women’s empowerment. These are the missions that matter to me because they represent what I didn’t have growing up. I grew up in a single-parent household where money was tight and access to resources felt impossible. I didn’t have access to mentors showing me how to build wealth, run a business, or believe I could create a life on my own terms. Now, I get to amplify women who are doing exactly that for others. I’m not just building brands. I’m helping create pathways for people who need them most.
How can women detach from comparison?
My wife shared a thought with me that has become my motto: We often talk about how it takes a village, but we forget that villages only work when we ourselves show up as villagers too. I believe when we, as women, shift our focus from our own needs to actively showing up as villagers for each other, the pressure and comparison dissipate.
The person next to you is no longer competition but someone you’re supporting on their journey, and naturally, your village will show up for you, too.
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