by AnYes Van Rhijn
Reinvention. It's a word that often comes to mind when life takes unexpected turns, and for me, it has become a defining theme. My story is one of perseverance, resilience, and the unwavering belief in the power of continuous self-discovery.
My journey started many decades ago. Like many, I started my career working tirelessly to climb the corporate ladder. When I looked up at 40, I realized I was unfulfilled. I was juggling multiple responsibilities, trying to meet everyone's expectations, and somewhere along the way, I had lost sight of what truly mattered to me. A serendipitous encounter with a coaching training program led me to my true passion. At 48, I started my boutique consultancy, and after a few years of trial and error, I became a successful International Executive Coach.
Leaving a Toxic Relationship
At 57, I realized that to thrive, I needed to prioritize my well-being and surround myself with positivity and love. I made the difficult decision to leave a toxic relationship despite knowing that I would lose everything. It was a turning point that required immense courage and self-belief.
A New Beginning in London
At 58, having lived with one of my sisters for one year, I moved from France to London with just two suitcases, without any income or savings. Starting anew in a vibrant yet unfamiliar city was challenging, especially with a blatant lack of resources. But, this move gave me countless opportunities to rebuild my life and business. I rediscovered my strengths and unlocked passions that I had forgotten existed.
Embracing Change Again at 66
After eight successful years in buzzing London, I felt ready for another change. That unrest led to the opportunity once more to reconsider all my choices in life and business. Fueled by a desire to embrace a slower pace of life, I moved to Croatia in November 2023.
I am now on a mission to shatter patriarchal expectations of what life should look like for women once they can no longer procreate and meet outdated standards of youth and beauty. I champion the idea that midlife should be a period of reinvention and renewed purpose rather than resignation. I help women create emotional and financial freedom infused with purpose, passion, and impact.
The Power of Continuous Reinvention Reinvention is not a one-time event but a continuous journey. Each challenge and triumph has been a stepping stone to a richer and more fulfilling life. It often starts with small, deliberate steps. Acknowledging the immense value of my life experiences, I realized they could serve as a powerful foundation for new endeavours. I kept asking myself critical questions that guided my journey: "What excites me?" "What impact do I want to make?" "How can I align my skills and passions with opportunities that bring me joy?” My story is a testament to the power of continuous reinvention. With each life transition, I found new ways to adapt and thrive. The ability to reinvent oneself isn't age-bound. To every woman in her 50s, 60s or 70s reading this, know that your next chapter is brimming with possibilities. Take the time to uncover your passions, embrace your experiences, and step boldly into the future you envision. Reinvention isn't about discarding your past; it's about weaving it into a vibrant tapestry that reflects who you are and the legacy you want to leave. It is never too late (nor too early) to step into the driver's seat of your life to reinvent it! Website: www.thereinventionmentor.biz
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