The Boldest Leap: What Starting a Business Taught Me About Fear, Leadership, and Moving Forward
- Feb 20
- 3 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
By Victoria Barkow
Every year asks something different of us. Sometimes it asks for stability. Sometimes it asks for strategy. But every now and then, a year comes along that demands something bolder—something bigger. For me, that moment arrived when I made the decision that would define my year: I started a business.
It wasn’t a casual leap or a whimsical passion project. It was a deliberate, calculated, terrifyingly thrilling decision to bet on myself. And that single move reshaped everything I thought I knew about courage, growth, and what it really takes to build something from the ground up.
The Boldest Move and the Lessons It Forced Me to Learn
Starting a business sounds glamorous from the outside, but on the inside? It’s equal parts vision, grit, and trial by fire. The biggest lesson this move taught me was simple: patience is key, but persistence is irreplaceable.
You can have the best idea, the sharpest skill set, the clearest roadmap—but none of it matters if you don’t have the endurance to keep showing up. Some days moved like lightning. Others crawled. Some wins came easy. Others came only after ten failed attempts. But every single moment reminded me why persistence is the one quality no entrepreneur can survive without.
And here’s the truth entrepreneurship unveiled for me: you don’t need to be an expert to get started.
Not everyone begins as a master, and honestly, most people don’t. What matters is being at least halfway competent, deeply committed, and wildly willing to learn. If you bring those qualities to the table, opportunities don’t just appear—they multiply. The world makes more room for you when you make more room for growth.
Handling Fear in High-Stakes Moments
People often assume successful entrepreneurs are fearless. Let me be very clear: I feel fear in every high-stakes decision I make. The difference is in how I choose to handle it.
I lean hard on a truth that has carried me through every “should I or shouldn’t I” moment: failure is just finding one more way not to do things. It’s not a verdict. It’s not a character flaw. It’s data.
Everyone fails. Everyone missteps. Everyone has a moment where their big idea doesn’t land the way they hoped. So when I approach a high-stakes decision, the pressure disappears. If I get it right, great—momentum grows. If I get it wrong, I gain a lesson that will sharpen the next decision. Either way, I’m moving forward.
Fear loses its power when you refuse to let it determine your direction.
My #1 Leadership Principle for 2026
Every year, I refine how I lead—myself, my work, and the people who trust me. But heading into 2026, one principle stands above the rest:
Remember your “why” and keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Your “why” is the anchor. It’s the clarity you cling to when obstacles show up, when doubt whispers, when progress slows, or when success feels too far away to visualize. Entrepreneurship will test your confidence, your discipline, and your resilience. But your “why”? That’s the lighthouse in the fog.
And once you know why you’re doing this, the rest becomes simple—not easy, but simple: keep moving. One step. Then another. Then another. Most people stop just before they hit momentum. Leaders push through the stall.
The Bottom Line
Starting a business changed me because it required the boldest, most honest version of myself. It demanded patience, rewarded persistence, reframed failure, and reshaped the way I lead.
The boldest move I made this year wasn’t about launching a company—it was about deciding to trust myself enough to take the first step. And every day since has been about taking the next one.
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