The State of Gratitude: Ending the Year in the Flow of Love and Abundance

By Tetiana Dunaievska

The year is coming to an end. Everything is changing — goals are being achieved, dreams are coming true, ideas are being realized, and new ones are on the horizon. The world keeps moving forward, but one thing remains unchanged — our ability to receive what we desire through our state of being.

A happy and confident woman knows how to live and feel four essential feminine states:

• Gratitude

• Acceptance

• Relaxation

• Trust

Today, I want to talk about the first and most powerful one — the state of gratitude.

This feeling creates lightness, femininity, and freedom. It opens the door to abundance — not only in a woman’s life but also in the lives of those she loves. The main law of attracting abundance is the feeling of deep gratitude.

What Is the State of Gratitude

Take a moment and think:

What are you grateful to yourself for?

Now, look around — what are you grateful to God, to the Universe, to life itself for?

When we consciously focus on gratitude — with clear, quiet thoughts and no distractions — a pure sense of love and lightness awakens within us. That is the energy of abundance.

It’s impossible to be in two states at once. You cannot be in gratitude and in lack at the same time. You cannot love yourself and devalue yourself simultaneously. You cannot live and not live.

You are alive right now.

Acknowledge it.

Pause your thoughts.

And simply feel gratitude.

Notice how your body reacts. Does it feel comfortable being grateful, or is it more used to pressure and self-criticism?

Gratitude as a Path to Abundance

Most often, we feel grateful after something happens. But if you learn to live in gratitude before the results appear, it becomes your natural state of being. Then you start to live in a constant flow of love, inspiration, and inner wealth.

The Universe always listens. It responds not to words, but to your state.

Gratitude is the most powerful law of abundance and the key to receiving what you desire. When you stop being grateful — new ideas, creativity, love, and clarity fade away. It may seem that you haven’t done enough this year, that you’ve scattered your attention on small, meaningless things.

But the moment you stop, refocus on what you have accomplished, and intentionally bring your awareness to gratitude — something shifts. New energy awakens. Inspiration returns. Strength comes back.

My Personal Experience

I know exactly how it works.

For over twenty years, I have been helping women through coaching to create lives filled with happiness and awareness.

My own journey wasn’t easy: divorce, two wars, immigration, losing my business twice, and starting over with two small children. But every time life challenged me, I chose gratitude. I looked within for something solid to hold on to.

Gratitude didn’t just help me survive — it helped me be reborn. It brought back strength, inspiration, and love for life and people.

And now I know for sure: if I could do it — so can you.

Invite gratitude into your heart today. Reflect on this year not through self-criticism, but through recognition of how much you have done, created, and overcome.

Let this December become a month of awareness, gratitude, and renewal.

Because everything you are searching for already lives inside you.

Connect With Tetiana

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