by Teri Katzenberger
We’ve all heard the saying, “Be careful not to burn bridges.” It’s usually framed as a cautionary warning: “You don’t want to burn any bridges!”
The phrase originated from the literal act of destroying a bridge or path behind you, ensuring that no one could follow. Over time, it’s come to symbolize intentionally cutting off relationships, opportunities, or connections. Burning bridges is often seen as a last resort, something reckless or irrevocable, leaving no chance for return.
But here’s the question I keep asking myself: “Is it really that bad to burn a bridge?” I mean, let’s be honest—we need to guard ourselves against people who aren’t truly for us. If someone isn’t for you, then by default, they’re against you. That doesn’t mean they’re outwardly hostile, but it does mean they don’t contribute positively to your life. People cannot love you and hate you at the same time. That’s not how this realm works.
I ask myself again: “To burn or not to burn the bridge?”
It’s a big question. One worth exploring. Because maybe, just maybe, burning a bridge isn’t always a loss. Sometimes, it’s the first step toward building a better one.
Vengeance isn’t necessary. I don’t believe in karma—I walk in faith and trust in God. I focus on being who He created me to be. We don’t have to be on the attack. Let others burn their own paths of hatred and discontent; you don’t have to join them.
It’s easier to follow the crowd than to chart your own course and live by your Personal Life Standards. Many people don’t want to see others succeed or live joyfully—misery loves company. I refuse to hang out with misery. The smaller my circle, the more peace I have.
Words of Wisdom: Don’t rebuild the bridges others have burned. If they don’t love you, or support you, let the ashes lay. It’s natural to want everyone to like us, but you don’t need to chase toxic relationships. Trust me—don’t waste your energy on bridges that lead back to haters, bullies, or pot stirrers.
I spent years crossing bridges to people who didn’t deserve my time. I’ve had to forgive myself for letting their actions steal so much of my life. But now, I see that my true bridge—the one I’m building—is beautiful and leads to peace and purpose.
The truth is, when we stop crossing back to toxic people, they accuse us of burning bridges. But we aren’t responsible for their paths. We’re responsible for our own mental and emotional wellness.
So, keep moving forward. Let the haters hate. You have nothing to lose, nothing to prove, and everything to gain by living boldly on your own beautiful bridge. There are dream stealers in our midst. I challenge you to become a Dream Releaser! Join me in fanning your flames to spark the fire within your spirit. Setting your Soul on fire! You deserve to be set free!
I would be honored to connect with you. I help women overcome hurts, habits and hang ups that continue to hold them back from achieving their best happy, healthy self and fulfilled life. You are welcome to reach out anytime. I would love to have a virtual coffee talk with you!
With Deep Love,
Teri Katzenberger
Founder - Owner
Live Well Now Academy LLC
Functional Health and Lifestyle Wellness Specialist
#1 International Best-Selling Author
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