by Prudence Hatchett
My surroundings, whether it’s the quiet corners of my home or the thoughts I allow into my mind, are chosen with care and intention. I choose colors, textures, and sounds that soothe my soul, creating a sanctuary where I can retreat, reflect, and recharge. Yes, my physical space is important, but so is my mental and emotional space.Â
I’ve created my own environment to feel free and to think freely without the judgment of myself nor others. However, creating this safe space requires more than just setting boundaries and a peaceful environmenIt requires trust, trust in myself and my ability to navigate life’s challenges. Trusting myself means believing in my decisions, even when they go against the grain. It means standing firm in my values and choices, knowing that I am capable and deserving of the life I imagine.
This trust hasn’t always been easy to come by. There were times when I doubted my own strength, when the noise of the world made me question myself. But through it all, I’ve learned that the most important relationship I have is the one with myself. And that relationship is built on a foundation of trust.
To maintain this trust and protect my safe space, I’ve had to be careful about the influences I’ve allowed into my life. I’ve learned to keep out the negativity of the world and the misconceptions of others. The world is full of opinions, many of which are based on misunderstandings and assumptions. It’s easy to get swept up in the circle of negativity, to internalize the doubts and fears of others. But I’ve made an intentional decision to shield myself from these influences.
This doesn’t mean I’m immune to the challenges of life or that I never feel the weight of the world’s pressures. But it does mean that I have a place to return to, a safe space where I can process, heal, and grow. By trusting myself and guarding my mental and emotional well-being, I’ve created an environment where I am free to be who I am, without fear or judgment.
In this space, I am my own protector, my own confidante, and my own guide. And in this space, I find the freedom to live authentically, to think deeply, and to love myself unconditionally.
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