Success in the mess: My True Journey as a Woman Founder
- Feb 13
- 3 min read
By Sasha Lindsey
As a woman founder in the beauty industry, my journey has been shaped just as much by struggle as by success. I built my salon during a season when everything felt uncertain, from my finances to my confidence to my sense of identity. Over time I learned that the moments that shake you the hardest often become the ones that strengthen you the most. My story is one of choosing to rise again, even when the ground beneath me felt unsteady.
My turning point was not glamorous or picture perfect.
It happened late one night after a twelve hour day when I was sitting alone in my small studio. A client had cancelled last minute, an unexpected expense popped up, and I felt like I was giving everything I had to a dream that still felt far away. I remember looking at my reflection and realizing that I had a choice. I could let fear convince me to shrink, or I could decide to bet on myself with whatever strength I had left. That night I chose to believe in myself. I promised that if I ever failed, it would not be because I backed down. It would be because I gave everything I had to the vision.
That mindset shift changed everything. I stopped waiting for permission. I started building opportunity for myself.
There is a myth that women who appear successful must have cracked the code on balance. I have not. The truth is much messier. People often describe having it all as a blend of career success, personal joy, financial stability, and emotional peace. In reality, there are seasons when one area thrives only because another is being held together by grit, quick decisions, supportive friends, or a quiet cry in the car between appointments. To me, having it all does not mean having everything at the same time. It means having the courage to define what matters most in each season and giving yourself permission to shift and reprioritize without guilt.
There is also so much pressure for women to appear polished, productive, and calm at all times. That expectation creates the illusion that leadership should always feel clear and confident. My experience has been the opposite. Leadership looks like trying, stumbling, learning, and trying again with more intention. Over time I learned that honesty is stronger than perfection. My team does not need me to have every answer. They need me to stay human, stay open, and be willing to grow right beside them.
Challenges do not disappear as you level up. New seasons bring new obstacles. What keeps me moving forward is a mix of grounded habits and a refusal to forget why I started. My mornings are sacred. Before I step into the noise of the day, I take time to breathe, reflect, and reconnect with my purpose. I also treat community like a lifeline. Many women believe strength means doing everything alone. I believe support is one of the smartest strategies we have. Surrounding myself with other women founders reminds me that every challenge is survivable and every setback is temporary.
What truly makes me feel unstoppable is remembering that leadership is not about avoiding hard moments. It is about meeting them with awareness, resilience, and grace. My struggles have not been signs that I was failing. They have been invitations to grow into a deeper, stronger version of myself. Empowerment did not arrive all at once. It appeared slowly through small choices, brave decisions, and a steady belief that I am meant to build something meaningful.
If there is one lesson I hold close, it is this. Your turning point begins the moment you decide your story is not finished. You rise when you choose yourself. And you stay unstoppable when you trust that every challenge is preparing you for what comes next.
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